Topic
Communication
Group chats, hard parent emails, the script you wish you had.
173 pieces
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Jul 4, 2026
Practice Got Scheduled on a Holiday. Here's How We Handled It
The team calendar said practice, 9am, July 4th. Our first instinct was to be annoyed. Our second was to ask why.
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Jul 4, 2026
The Team BBQ on a Holiday Weekend: Whose Job Is the Cooler
Someone has to bring the cooler, coordinate the sides, and answer forty texts about start time. It's rarely a coin flip who that someone is.
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age 15+ · Jul 4, 2026
Your Teenager Doesn't Want You at Practice Anymore. Here's What That Means
For years we watched every practice. Then, without much warning, we were asked to wait in the car.
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Jul 4, 2026
The Coach Who Ignores the Heat Advisory: What We Actually Say
The phone alert said excessive heat warning. The coach said one more set of sprints. We had about four seconds to decide what to say.
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Longer read · Jun 20, 2026
How to talk to the coach about playing time
This conversation goes wrong more often than it should. Here's how to do it right.
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age 5–7 · Jan 20, 2026
Talking to a Parent Who's Coaching From the Stands
They're trying to help. They don't see what they're actually doing.
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Jan 13, 2026
The Group Chat Rule That Ends Midnight Texts
Schedules and weather only. Everything else goes one-on-one.
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Longer read · Jun 17, 2026
What coaches actually want from parents at practice
It's not complicated. But most parents get it wrong.
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Longer read · Band · age 11–12 · May 12, 2026
Chairs and sectionals: how middle school band ranks its players
First chair, second chair, sectionals, challenges. The ranking system feels brutal at 11. Here is how it works and what it actually means.
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May 13, 2026
The calendar negotiation with grandparents
They want the kids for two weeks in July. The travel team has nationals that week. The conversation that doesn't blow up the family.
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Longer read · Choir · age 11–12 · May 12, 2026
When the choir brings home a piece in Latin (or German, or French)
School choirs sing in lots of languages. Most parents have no idea what their kid is supposed to be doing with the lyrics. Here is the truth: pronunciation matters more than meaning.
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Longer read · Dance · age 11–12 · May 12, 2026
How to be the dance parent your kid wants in the lobby
The dance studio lobby is its own small community. Here is how to show up well in a space you will be in every week for years.
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Longer read · Jun 13, 2026
Feedback that builds kids up instead of shutting them down
The line between feedback that develops and feedback that shuts down is thinner than most coaches realize.
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Longer read · age 5–7 · May 13, 2026
The first time a teammate calls you Coach and your kid hears it
The small moment that scrambles the family identity. What your kid is processing. What to say tonight if anything.
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Longer read · age 8–10 · Apr 13, 2026
How to ask for playing time without asking for playing time
The conversation every parent wants to have with the coach. The version that actually works.
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Longer read · Jun 13, 2026
How to build trust with young athletes
Every other coaching skill depends on this one first.
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Longer read · Jun 13, 2026
How to give feedback kids actually hear
Most feedback in youth sports either bounces off or shuts the kid down. Here's what actually works.
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Longer read · Jun 13, 2026
How to handle parent complaints
They are going to complain. Here's how to handle it without letting it take over your season.
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Longer read · May 13, 2026
Mom and Dad disagree on a youth-sports decision
The travel-team question. The specialization question. The pull-the-kid-from-the-team question. How to work it out without making the kid pick a side.
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Longer read · Jun 13, 2026
Playing time: how to have the conversation
This conversation can help or hurt your kid's situation. Here's how to make it help.
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age 11–12 · May 13, 2026
The pre-season meeting with the new coach
Twenty minutes. Two questions to ask. One thing to never bring up.
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Longer read · Dance · Apr 25, 2026
Stage parents: the dance-mom dynamic and how to stay sane
The costume drama. The politics. The moms who run everything. How to be supportive without losing yourself.
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Longer read · age 8–10 · Apr 8, 2026
Telling the coach your kid is being bullied
Without making it bigger. Without making it smaller. The conversation that protects your kid and the team.
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Longer read · Apr 22, 2026
The text to the coach you should never send
Friday at 9pm. The text in your drafts. Don't send it. Here is what to do instead.